Sexual fantasies are a normal part of every person’s sex life. They are healthy and pretty common since almost 90% of people have them. They vary from person to person, but there are some that are present in all of us. We are going to talk about some of those, and how you can try them.
One of the most common fantasies is having a threesome. It is quite normal and doesn’t mean you want to cheat on your partner. Rather, you are just enjoying a third person being there, who can spice things up and break the monotony. If you are not actually ready to take this step, you can try talking about it and bringing a third person even if it is just imagination. For girls, there are a lot of toys like dildoes and vibrators that can help create the feeling of another person.
Another pretty popular sexual fantasy is bondage. This is something that can be a lot of fun if you set boundaries with your partner beforehand. There is something in not being able to move that triggers pleasure in our minds. If you want to try bondage, you can start from simpler ideas like collars, blindfolds, or tying hands. However, for anyone who wants to take it a step further, there are many exciting adult toys like mouth gags, collars with cuffs, and restraints that are going to help you fulfill this sexual fantasy.
There is not a person in the world that does not like to be dominated in one way or another during sex. Milder forms of this include one partner taking the lead and control over the other, doing whatever comes to their mind (of course, with previous consent). However, a full-on dominance/submission relation includes BDSM activities or even a lifestyle that involves controlling a bit more than just sex life. Some of the toys you can try here are also from the bondage section, but you can also try teasing and edging, which leads to increased desire, as well as whips and subtle public play, which includes plugs, clamps, and many more.
Roleplay and cosplay
Many people enjoy roleplay in the bedroom and acting as someone else. This is a perfect way to explore and try your fantasies in a healthy and fun manner. Some of the most popular roles are teacher and schoolgirl, police officer, nurse and handyman. To be able to fully enjoy this, costumes and props are all necessary, so you can get clothes, wigs and shoes to create the full atmosphere.
Sex with a stranger
One-night stands and having sex with someone we don’t know too well are also at the top of the list of fantasies. The fact that we don’t really know the person, don’t know what to expect and are trying something new brings a lot of pleasure. You can easily try this with your partner as well by including some roleplay. For example, you two can act like strangers in public, and act out a scene of meeting for the first time. Think of this as extended foreplay, and treat your partner like you would any potential new partner. Try dirty talk while you are out, and we are sure the sex will be great once you come back home.
A bigger part of each of these fantasies can be safely explored with your partner if you talk about it in advance and make a deal. It is a healthy way to spice things up if you are going through a rut or just want to have fun and try something exciting.